Here we have some basic instructions on how to set yourself up for playing on my server. First make sure I know you so that when you Second email me to ask if you can be put on the whitelist to allow you play I will say yes...
My decision to whitelist you may be subject to certain agreements or tests of minecrafting ability...
Next you need to note that the server is currently running the technic build pack mod so you will need to update your minecraft appropriately. Hit up the Tekkit page and download the direct client. Just extract the zip somewhere and run the intaller that you extracted. Supposedly you need java 7 but it mostly runs fine on Windows with 6.30 (which i have). On linux you definitely need java 7 and on a mac get the patches they tell you about on that webpage. If you have some queries ask me or Cian.
Finally when you have that working check out the Server Status page to find out if the server is running, what version is running, and what the ip address to connect to is!
just if you are curious you can look at the current map if you feel like it.